When they show you who they are the first time, believe them.
This doesn’t mean after you’ve insulted them or hurt their feelings or whatever for the 50th time and they reach their breaking point, that that is the image of them that should stick. What I’m referring to is the compassion that was expressed when you were bugging out the first time. The way they greeted you the first time you were not acting like your normal self.
Don’t get me wrong, we all have ways about us. But when they deliberately attach you or lie one you from day one, that’s when you take the time to identify who and what kind or person you are dealing with.
Take a mental note of the event then determine how you should proceed. Don’t feel bad about it, as long as you came with an open and kind heart. Move forward with understanding and identify the lessons